Hey y'all. This is Kt!
I live in Texas (as yall can see!!!)
and I'm good at giving advice so ask me some questions and I'll help you as best as I can!!!
Thanks!!!
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Member Since: November 25, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 3, 2004
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Is it possible to change certain characteristics that you don't like about yourself? Recently there have been things that I've done that I normally wouldn't do that have made me and my bf get into fights. They're little fights, and we always end up resolving them, but in the end I feel like a complete idiot for making such a big deal out of certain things. I want to change the way I react to things, and the way I think about certain things. Do you think that's possible?? Any suggestions? (link)
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i dont think that there is any reason for changing yourself. consider the facts that you may be stressed out, or you need a change of something. getting angry at little things happen to all of us sometimes, mostly because we are either tired and crabby, in a bad mood, or stressed out about something and you have no other way to get your feelings out.
i would either talk to somebody you trust or write in a diary about your day and if you felt stressed out or anything. or maybe you just need a change of things, like, is your boyfriend making you mad? sad? angry? if so, i think that yall should take a break... if not, then i think you should keep going out with him, but trying to calm your thoughts whenever you start to make a big deal over something that isnt a big deal.
so in conclusion, i dont think you should ever change yourself for anybody, just take some time off from things and relax....
i hope it helps!
~Kt
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that was really good advice...thanks
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