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heyy everybody! my name is melanie and im good at listening to people and giving advice. ask me anything and ill try to help as much as i can. You can ask me absolutely anything so plz dont hold back.
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I've had this crush on this girl for quite some time. It's gotten to the point where I'll buy stuff I don't really need, nor do I really want, just to talk to her. She always seems happy to see me and always gives me a big hug before I leave. The problem is I have no idea how old she is. I'm not the type of guy who judges people who date younger or older people, but it seems to worry my when I'm involved. I'm 20, what if she's only 15 or 16. She looks and kind of acts young, so I'm worried. What do you think the dating age limit should be for someone like myself?

The other problem. Earlier today, I saw scars and cuts on her rist. It doesn't look like something an accident would have caused. I know she can't really die from cuts on arm, but the scars aren't exactly good for her either. How should I go about asking her where they're from? Is it even my business to ask such a question? What if she obviously lies to me about the scars origins? Should I just drop it then or what?

first thing you have to do is know her age so next time you see her just casually ask how old she is after a while of conversation. ask her out on a date or just to hang out one night if she is in the age range you are interested in. Also, the cuts on her wrists might not be anything now BUT when people cut or burn themselves its because they dont know how to take out there anger. This isnt good at all. Right now cutting might not be very serious but in a few months her cuts could turn to slits. She could end up killing herself, so if u really care then talk to her about it but only when she is comfterble around you. If she feels threated by you she will take it the wrong way and might not ever talk to you again. but trust me, cutting is serious.
good luck hunny.
xo. melanie

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