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Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like? (link)
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NEVER settle. It'll hurt the guys feelings eventually and it'll be uncomfortable for you. You'll end up feeling obligated and it will just ruin relationships for you. You deserve more then jhust what you can get. You probably feel excited that someone likes you, but trust me it will not be the last time. I also agree with you saving your firsts for someone you like. It is a special thing and it deserves a special person. If you will feel uncomfortable with the guy that likes you then there is no point in going out with him. Maybe the guy you like won't like you back, but you'll move on to someone you like and who likes you back and then you'll know it's the right time to have a boyfriend. Don't wait for the guy to like you back because that might not happen, but don't settle just to have a boyfriend.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you soo much. Awesome advice.
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