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I know most answers are going to be to talk to the person.. but how am I supposed to know whether or not the guy I want to confront is gay or not? If you are gay.. please IM me lol Striker6909 I'll rate you a 3-5 if you answer this question well thanks! (link)
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It's hard to tell what you are asking. It seems like you are gay, and you want to ask a guy out, but you don't know if he is gay. Is that right?
If this is true, then are you "out" to anyone? Do you have any gay friends? Is there any place where you could meet other gay guys?
When you are first coming out, it can be very hard to meet other guys. Just randomly going up to some guy you think is cute and asking him out is pretty risky. Your chances of having a good experience are going to be a lot better if you find a way to meet guys you know are gay. Are you in high school? See if your school has a gay/straight alliance, or some kind of gay support group. If there is nothing at your school, check out a local gay and lesbian community center. They usually have social activities and support groups for teens. If these things don't exist where you live, try some online resources.
I'm guessing from your question that you are young and new to dating. Right now, friends are way more important than guys to "hook-up" with. Just make sure you take care of yourself, because there are creeps out there who will take advantage of you if you're not careful-- don't do anything you don't want to do.
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