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Q: Ok i luv clothes like hollister abercrombie aeropostale n stuff but every time i go shopping my mom gets me stuff like khols n all that crap!i hate it she acts like im 10 yrs old or somtin!n since i dont wanna hurt her feelings i say "i luv that" n she always buys stuff but i never wear it!
wut should i tell her/do ?

Signed,
KS!(my initials)

Well tell your mother that you dont like them and that you think she is dressing you like a 10 year old! Because I'm sure that she would rather spend money on clothes that you will wear rather than ones you wont!! So ask her if ya'll can go shopping and show her the clothes that you like!!

Q: why are random weirdos asking you for advice?

I dont know they are weirdos but cool funny weirdos!!

Q: hey Brittaney this is ur non cleaning freind!!u r tha best!!ok now 2 the real question...so i was walkin down the street 1 day when all of a sudden i see a peice of cheese!!!and normally i wouldnt go that far as 2 eat it but...i was really hungry!and then my stomach was roaring like a tiger(thats a simile)lol...well anyways..i through up and i wanna ask u...AM I GONNA DIE?AND IF I DO WILL I GO 2 HEAVEN?this is urgent answer imediatly...i dont have much time..atleast i dont think so..

Well that is kind of disgusting but since you already did it then yes u are gonna die!! And i dont know if u will go to heaven! Have you been a good person?? That will answer your question about going to heaven!!

Q: ok i need help!I have a very good friend who has a crush on me, but he's afraid to ask me out!wut should i tell him or wut should i do!?!?!

Signed,
Clueless woman

Try and hint to him that you like him. The only reason he wont is because he might be afraid of rejection make him possotive that you will not say no!!That will make him feel better about asken you that is if you want him to!!

Q: Ok help me here. I have this friend and we met in like elementary and we have been really close ever since. Last year we were great friends and we had like 6 clases or something like that but anyways we were practicly best friends. Now this year I only have a couple of classes like gym and lunch n i think one more. But now she's like leaving me out of everything. Her profile has her best friends in it and i'm not even in there. She had pages for her close friends and a shoutout page for everyone else. I wasn't in there anywhere. Its really making me sad and even though we still hang out and stuff I don't know what to think. What should I do?

Tell your friend that you feel like she is leaving you out! And point out to her that you guys used to hang out all the time and see what she says! Maybe it was a mistake so that is why you should talk to her about it!

Q: ahahahha i know i know lol..i love you too!

Heck yess i love u!!!!

Q: brittaney i think you should tell me. (now imagine that in caps bc it says it "hurts you for me to type in caps")

Um... no i cant tell you b/c i swore and i wouldn't do that to him!! You'll find out when the time is RIGHT!!! I love you though!!!

Q: i think i like this guy but i cant tell. he is really nice and considerate, but everyone says i am too good for him. i don't think i am to good for him and i think my friend just doesnt want me to like him bc i think she likes him. i dont know if i should tell him i like him bc i still want to be friends with him and him not act all weird around me. please help.

I think that you should tell him the truth b/c it cant get any where if you dont tell him so you should be true to him and your self no matter what ypur friend says. Unless she says she likes him then you need to think about what you want more a friend or a boyfriend!!

Q: its me again...the last one you answered....well no she doesnt really try to hang out with me it has to be me inviting her to places....and she never wants to me hang out with her new friends....im givin up....

Well then maybe she doesn't deserve to be your friend if she puts you off for the "popular peopel"!!! So stop tryen to be her friend and when she gets ditched or something then she will come crawling back to you and ill let you handle it from there!! Becuase what goes around comes around!!!

Q: there is this girl...and sometimes we are the bet of friends...then other times im just a face that 'she doesnt know' wen shes around the popular kidds....maybe she doesnt mean to...but shuld i talk to her?, i mean i have before but it never really got anywhere..plz help

Well what did she say last time!!! And see if it follows w/ what is really going on!! Does she invite you places? Does she try and hang out with you? And if she does then maybe se isnt ditchen you maybe she likes to hang out w/ other friends. Why dont you try and hang out w/ her and the so called "popular people."

Q: hey its brett n i like this guy ALOT!! omg i cant stop..he has like a magnet in him for me to be even more attracted to him!!....yeah he goes to beckendorff which sucks balls but hey its alright its just a diff school n i might go to the same highschool so ill have to wait but oh well!! yeah i dont really need advice i just thought i wuld let evry1 kno how i feel so ttyl love u muchos brittaney!!!
I LOVE JAKE PINCHBACK!!!!

lots of love,
/[*>*bReTt OwEn*

OK!!! BRETT LOVES JAKE PINCHBACK just so everyone knows!! Yeah i helped you hahahha lol!!

Q: ok i have these so called friends n they like do stuff without we all the time! They like never invite me anywhere.. r they being jerks or what

Well confront these friends and tell them that you feel like they are not including you and see what they say!! And if they say they are not trying then maybe you should invite them places too!
~Hope I helped~

Q: Well.. you see my "freinds" have been talkin behind my back like no other! and well.. it hurts.. i thought they were my freinds.. one day they will love me but the next they wont... what should i do?

Ask your friend if she is really talking behind your back and see what she says and try and trust her but if you find out that she is and that she lied to you then maybe you shouldnt be her friend because a good friend wouldnt do that!!

Q: i think that my freind doesnt like me nny more bc she always ditches me for say the more "pop." people bc she thinks im not cool enough... what should i do?

Well you should ask your friend why she is leaving you? And if she was your real friend she wouldn't ditch you so comfront her and see what she says!!!

Q: Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any....

It is a lot less painful with a gun and it barely hurts at all. My third piercing at the bottom hurt more than that. Dont even think about what you are doing just sit there and act like you are waiting for dinner or something!!! That is what I did and it didnt hurt!

Q: Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me.

Maybe the people don't show that they see it because they are afraid that it will hurt your feelings you should just tell your parents that you did that and why you think that you did and maybe they will give you attention!!! There is other ways to get attention than scratching yourslef with a needle that doesnt help that just scares people away!!

Q: well you see i had this kid and he was my best friend forever and i could talk to him about anything.... well now we never talk and i miss him a lott and i cry about this often... what should i do

just randomly walk up to him and start talking about things that ya'll used to do or something really funny that you used to talka about then it will get you talken again and you can ask if he wants to do something and if you feel dumb don't you should be and do what you want to!!! Be yourself and dont let other ppl tell you who you are!!!

Q: i have this friend, who has a friend, who has a mom w/ a gay brothe,r and he had a sister who knows this guys......and this guys says that he gay but doesnt kno how to come out of the closet ......what should he do?

I think that the guy should ask the sister of the gay guy how he came out of the closet and see what he has to say.

Q: hey brittaney! uhh lets see what to ask...uhh what do u do wen number 1 (me) and number 2 are like best friends then theres number 3 who is like weird is jealous of number 1 and number 2's friendship because number 3 used to be *good* friends with number 2 but then number 2 keeps getting annoyed with number 3 and number 1 just totally hates number 3 but number 2 keeps just trying to be friends with number 3 for some strange reason?

Well maybe you, 2, and 3 should all be friends and if number 2 is getting annoyed by number 3 then maybe she should tell her and see what happends maybe she doesnt know that she is beindg annoying and she is trying really hard to become friend with number 2 again ok!!! So try and talk to her!!