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Hey-i was reading through your column and i really liked the advice you were giving so i was wondering if you could help me out with a situation i have:
alrite so beginning of this year (i was still a junior in high school) i met a guy (a senior in high school who's now a freshman in college) through my best friend's boyfriend and one nite after all 4 of us hanging out i ended up hooking up with him. When it started out, neither of us was looking for a relationship, i was just looking to gain experience so i figured it was a great idea. Long story short-i went pretty far with him and got attached-towards the end of the school year we found out we both really liked each other, we went to prom together and were hooking up monogamously for about 4 months but he never asked me out-finally middle of summer he said he didn't wanna lead me on but he really didn't want a gf when he was gonna be leaving for college in a month-i told him i understood but naturally i was heartbroken. So i didn't see him the rest of the summer, i've just heard stories about him hooking up with other girls which killed me...literally but i finally finally got over him (its been a long long road). Anyways he's back for thanksgiving break and i haven't gotten play in awhile-so this friday we are getting together-im really worried cuz when i see him i don't know if i will have the strength to turn down hooking up with him, but i definitely know i don't have the strength to get over him again-at the same time....i desperately need play LOL. What do u think i should do?!?!

thanks

Hey i'm so sorry this is late! But still if I was you I would try as hard as I could not too hook up with him. Being in collage he probably was with girls, mabye a lot of them. If you did hook up with him, you'll probaby have a harder time getting over him. To me from what your seeing, no offence this is just my opinion, but all he seems to want is sex. He hasnt had relationships, but sex. And since you didnt see him all summer (mabye didnt even talk to him) you should deff. forget about him as hard as it is. Because you could get a guy who would go out with you and care a lot more about you than he did, and you could still hook up lol. A lot of times when girls have played or hooked up with a guy they like him a lot more just because of that. Hanging out with other guys and going out with other ones will help you forget about him more easy. I hope everything went okay. And I'm so sorry I coudlnt get back to you about this before friday! Good luck with everything, hope i helped a bit lol. Byez

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(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much!!! don't worry its not too late-i see him later tonite. i really appreciate you taking the time to read this-i really enjoy hearing your opinion about this problem since its been bugging me for such a LONG TIME!!!
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