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Hey-i was reading through your column and i really liked the advice you were giving so i was wondering if you could help me out with a situation i have:
alrite so beginning of this year (i was still a junior in high school) i met a guy (a senior in high school who's now a freshman in college) through my best friend's boyfriend and one nite after all 4 of us hanging out i ended up hooking up with him. When it started out, neither of us was looking for a relationship, i was just looking to gain experience so i figured it was a great idea. Long story short-i went pretty far with him and got attached-towards the end of the school year we found out we both really liked each other, we went to prom together and were hooking up monogamously for about 4 months but he never asked me out-finally middle of summer he said he didn't wanna lead me on but he really didn't want a gf when he was gonna be leaving for college in a month-i told him i understood but naturally i was heartbroken. So i didn't see him the rest of the summer, i've just heard stories about him hooking up with other girls which killed me...literally but i finally finally got over him (its been a long long road). Anyways he's back for thanksgiving break and i haven't gotten play in awhile-so this friday we are getting together-im really worried cuz when i see him i don't know if i will have the strength to turn down hooking up with him, but i definitely know i don't have the strength to get over him again-at the same time....i desperately need play LOL. What do u think i should do?!?!

thanks

well look i know how tempting it is to turn down hooking up with a guy you've had feeling for once..but all u gotta do is try hard nd control those feeling cause i know your not defintely ready to go through the same heartbreak again...maybe its best you dont go out and chill wit him unless u know you can control those feelings...let him know first how you feel if you about to hook up be like if he really serious about you or if its one of your game and if its one of his game hes is trying to play tell him that you dont wanna be part of that trust me it be better cause i know how it feels you wont want to through getting over him cause i had suttin similar happen to me i fell head over heels over a guy again but he was just wanted a booty call and i wasnt up for that..all it build up was false hope... hope this helps rate me plz!

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much for the advice-there's just something about him-i dunno why i can't get over him but you are right i can't take getting my heart broken again.
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