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Q: my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?
Find new friends.

Seriously. Sure you can tell them why, it's probably a good idea to do so. One day they'll realize that their "real" friends left them and hopefully that will be enough to make them change, but don't expect it to happen for a while.

My ex-boyfriend/fiancee was into drugs and so were his friends, I wasn't. After years of talking to him, hoping he'd quit, him promising to quit...I quit him. I broke everything off with him and haven't talked to him in two years. From what I hear from my friends is that he cleaned up his act, quit using drugs, got a better job, etc. I couln't be happier for him, but sometimes that's the price you have to pay.

Good luck with your friends.

thanks! :)

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