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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: ¿professional killer?
Age: 15
AIM: Haustrian13
Member Since: November 17, 2004
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ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well first off, I recommend commas and capitalization...it was very hard on my eyes. But other than that I'm proud of you for using periods and such...

I suggest dropping your ex on his ass (or on spikes) because he fucked up...and explain to the other guy the situation that you're in. If he really feels the way he says he does, he'll understand and help you through it. And if he doesnt, then he wasn't worth your time.

I also think that telling the new guy what's going on will allow you to find out if you can really trust him.


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im sry about my puncuation i needed to get everything out i didnt really care.lol!thankyou so much you made a difference although thats what every1 close to me is saying it helps from someone who i dont know. Thankyou very much and youll be the one i turn to




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