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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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Okay I have a guy friend 'Alexander' I know Alex from my tap dance, we are in the same class together and I sort of befriended him because he was extremely nice. Well he loves to dance, and he is really gifted but all the other girls in the class are being really really mean to him. He has such a friendly attitude that he goes up everyone and says hi, even the 'In' group which he wants to be a part of so badly. I honestly don't know why he would want to be nice to stuck up know-it-alls but thats just my opinion talking there. They give him threats and say he is gay, plus all his friends at school make fun of him and call him gay also. He was so hurt when told me all this he was near tears, I felt sooo sorry for him. I feel sorry for him because I have been the only person that has been nice to him, and I tend to want to make fun of guys and call guys names.
He told me how hurt he was last week and that he had made himself come to dance that day. I do understand how he feels, My entire life I have been made fun of.

my problem is I like Alex and I know I shouldn't because i'm setting myself up for pain. I want to stay away from him but then I would be hurting Alex because he would think I didn't like him either. I try not to think of him because I know he doesn't like me and I will get hurt like all the other times before, Plus I'm too ugly for any guy.

First of all you gotta have confidence in your self seriously that attitude isin't gunna get you any guy cuz no guy's like that. Secondly maybe Alex does like you and really you don't have to be in the "in" group if your considering it because apparently they feast on other's misery... and anyone who does that needs to get a life. Go for it talk to him and if he is gay support him because he looks like he needs it. Hope I helped ya! SEND ME SOME FEEDBACK REALLY I WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S UP.
-Bianca

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(Rating: 3) Okay your advice was "okay" but for one thing I don't want to be part of the 'in' group and Alex is not gay. He has a girlfriend.
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