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Well I've known this guy for about 2 years over the internet. (I met him through a friend who met him 6 months before me) We've talked on the phone, sent letters, pictures, webcams, and all of that, also I've talked to his family and friends so that I know everything he says is true. I've told him that I love him, and he says the same to me. When he gets his liscence, he was going to come and visit me. We only live about 5 hours apart... Yeah, we've had our ups and downs but i still love him, even though we're not "going out" or anything. I know he's had sex once before with his ex girlfriend of a year. I would have sex with him, but I'm still a virgin and I think I'm too young. He's not pressuring me or anything, it's something I wanna do. (Please don't lecture me about it, I know, I also don't need inappropriate vulgar remarks thrown at me for this) He's 16 and I'm 14, but I'll be 15 by the time he gets to visit. I just need some help on what to do to make me feel more open with him. I guess I just feel intimidated because it's not his first time. (It's also not like I've never done anything sexual before, just not sex itself) Please help me out with this.
well my friend went through that too! she just hung out with him... he was quiet and shy at first, but he warmed up quickly. Just hang out... movies, mall, pool, recreation center, skating rink, lounge/club, parties/raves, etc etc... don't make uncomfortable small talk. Just smile, act normal, flirt and talk about regular things, then maybe just randomly make out. Or you could get drunk on your first visit... *not joking - like I said I'm basing this on my friend* that always opens people up right? Anyhow... I suggest waiting one to two months before you suggest having sex... unless of course he suggests it. Good luck! :)
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Thanks! That helped a lot. One problem though, he doesn't believe in drugs or alchohol. But going out places, and not feeling uncomfortable with small talk was a big tip. =)
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