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Last Update: May 16, 2005
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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah
thank you in advance, I'll rate you all
~Allysa (link)
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Well, i recently had a similar experiance. This one person used me all of the time and i didnt catch on at first and then it began to become clearer. It got really annoying really fast. But what i tried was not talking to this person for awhile and eventually it started to work (a little.) Then the same thing happened all over again and can ya guess?, same reaction too. What I've done is talk when im talked to but dont go into detail. Sarah will eventually realize that shes loosing a GREAT friend for doing all you've done for her for such a long time. She may or may not realize it for awhile and if and when she does, she might not think anything of it. So, its up to you, you can try to keep going along with it or just try well, not being right there all the time. Does that make sense? And John, just because you're not getting along so well with Sarah right now doesnt mean you should forget about John.
I hope I helped!!
Good luck with Sarah and John
XoX!*__* Katie
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haha thank you for the advice, but yeah sarahs dumber than cream cheese
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