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ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to. (link)
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Yeah, I'm sure you don't need to worry about your b'friend, but you do gotta worry about your friend, not because she'll steal him away or anything, but because she kinda needs to get her own life and stop pretending she is you. It sounds like just maybe she is envious of what you have and she wants that too, not necessarily with your guy, but with someone. Ask your b'friend when your friend is not around if he has any nice, single friends that might want to hang out, the four of you. Try something like that. In the meantime (because that could take a few weeks of working on it) you could just keep an eye on and make sure your b'friend isn't provoking this AT ALL and doesn't enjoy it too much, make sure he is just being nice to your friend for you. Or if you're all set and totally trust him, then cool, just try to work on overpowering your friend when she is trying to overpower you. She may just enjoy being around your guy but as a friend. Some "friends" just really click better than others. So let her be herself around him sometimes, but other times, when enough is enough, you need to get your spot right back, don't let it be stolen when it's not cool. Hope I helped :)
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