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I have dating issues to start off and am very picky about who I go out with. My most recent boyfriend and I broke up about 9 months ago. It was difficult to deal with. Now he's engaged, this is a trend for my ex's. All of them are either engaged or married by now. I'm 22, but I tend to date guys at least 5 years older than me. SO...one of the reasons why I broke up with him before was that I fell in love with my best friend. I've told my best friend and he's said he likes me too, however, we are incredibly close and risking our friendship is a horrible thing. I've moved on more or less and have dated quite a few guys since. None interest me as much as my best friend, but that's life. Now I'm dating two guys, both are nice and intelligent and have good stable jobs, one is a stock broker, the other an engineer. However, the engineer, who is my age, is probably one of the most boring guys I've ever met. His idea of a "wild" night was going to a party at a friends house and then some woman danced on the table. That was the craziest night of his life. That same night, I had been partying and dancing on tables at one bar (It was Halloween, so there were parties everywhere) and then I drove to another city and continued the partying there, where I ended up meeting up with the other guy, the stock broker and we ended up doing some pretty bad things on the hood of his car in a parking lot that just so happened to have security cameras. The next day I spoke to the engineer boy about his wild night and I couldn't help but be annoyed with him. I know he's a great guy and he said he's crazy about me and knows I'm a bit wild, but hopes it'll rub off on him a bit. THe other guy, obviously is wild like me, but that's not necessarily a good thing. He's assured me he's trustworthy and isn't dating anyone else, and I have told him about the other guy. So do I go for the safe, yet boring guy or the wild one??? Ideally I'd rather lose the two of them and get with my best friend, but that isn't happening. :) Sorry this is so long. I babble a lot. I think maybe I'm just totally insane.
The wild guy. He's more like you. He's more interesting and overall you'll be happier with him. IF you end up really liking him, he'll like you too and he won't date someone else. But I still think you should sit down with your friend tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants to date... cuz it sure as hell sounds like you belong with him... *ah love*
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Thanks for your advice and you are right. As for telling my friend how I feel, I did that and he doesn't want to jeopardize our friendship...so he doesn't like me like that and that's fine. I'll live. Thanks again for your help.
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