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Hello, my name is Delaney and I am 16 years old. I would love to help answer your questions, ans help you through a rough time. I am a good listener, and I am willing to take time out of my day to answer your questions. I paintball, sing, dance, ride horses, write music, play guitar, off road, 4 wheel, write poetry, play football, and listen to all different kinds of music.
Gender: Female
Location: Redmond, WA
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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Member Since: November 7, 2004
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Last Update: November 11, 2004
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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
Alright, I will give you my opinion on the situation. I have done it all but that because I don't feel that there is any respect behind giving a guy head. I don't like being 'looked down upon' by a guy, and I don't really feel the need to do it. They enjoy it, but if someone asks for it I just say I don't feel comfortable enough. As for you, if it doesn't seem right to you then be honest with him. You've been together quite a while, and shit if you can't be honest with him sexually then you must not communicate much. Hope that helps ~*_Laney_*~


Rating: 5
It does help, thank you. I see your point...we do communicate. I'm always yelling at people here to communicate with people, and I'd be a bit of a hypocrite if I didn't, wouldn't I? =)




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