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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?

well I'm not sure... but my friends weren't comfortable with it either, so there might be a few things bothering you.
lack of experience
the whole idea of a penis in your mouth
taste
doing it wrong

and there are other things too. But all I can say is Just Do IT... you'll get over it really fast that way. Try buying flavored condoms. And if you want... practice.

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