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Hi I'm Ali. I'm 15 and I'm in 10th grade. *Yay!* I'm origionally from New York but I moved up to Maine. I have a sister who is 13 and a 3 year old brother. At the moment my 17 year old cousin is living with us. He just moved in around april. Long story. I tend to be shy at first but I eventually warm up. I'm always the one my friends turn to for advice or just for someone to talk to. My dad is a phsychiatrist so I wonder if it's in my genes. *lol* I can be very fun, but also serious when I need to be. I tend to make good grades but I have to work for them. So thats me! Not too interesting. Oh well.

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ok im 15 years old, and im bout 5'3 i weigh 100 pounds even, and im a size 0. but sumhow i always think im fat! my friends r like "your not fat, stop saying that" i mean yea im not the most self-confident person.. but i dont see why my weight bothers me so much. i dont have like rolls or ne thing. but im constantly talking about how i want to lose weight. yet i know im not fat... but at the same time i convince myself i am. i think it has to do with my x boyfriend, b/c he called me fat as a joke once, but since then.. ive been really concious about it. i dont know wut to do. or how i can stop being so obsessive about my weight and just my personality towards it in general....ne suggestions? thankx


L0v3 - brittany

You are NOT fat! You just need to make sure you know that. There are a variety of reasons you could think your fat. Ranging from the media, to your ex. I think I'm fat, too. I know I'm not, and I'm biffer than you! Seriously though, I know by experience, that if a thin girl keeps complaining they're fat, people might get annoyed. No offence but you sound REALLY skinny. And if you say your fat, girls that are bigger than you might start thinking they're fat, even if they're not. Just be conscous of that. And learn to like yourself the way you are. Good luck. I hope you realize how pretty [I'm sure] you are.

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(Rating: 5) thankx soo much! ur a soo sweet. and i really appreciate wut u had to say! =)!
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