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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First off you said it yourself, it isn't that people don't like you they just are avoiding you out of peer pressure. Remember this, school doesn't last forever and the only constant in life is change. But that change begins within you. You are trying to hard my friend. You are wanting to be accepted by a group of people unworthy of your friendship. I am sure that you are not the only one at that school that feels that way. First, dump all of these so-called friends. Second, become your own friend. You have to like yourself, love yourself in order for anyone else to get in and like or love you. Have you ever met someone that hated themself so much that it consumed them? That will happen to you if you do not take action now. Running away will take you away from a situation but you can't run away from yourself. Believe me, we have all tried it and it just doesn't work. Start by finding something that really interests you. I mean something that you have real passion for. Maybe photography, art, music, drama, sports, astronomy. Anything that you really care about, that intrigues you and that you can put a lot of time into. Then find out where you can go (within school or outside) that you can be with people that share this interest with you. People that you have a common bond with in this thing that you have so much passion for. Start making your friends there. When you have an outlet that you are so strongly passionate about and you have friends within this outlet then other things in life become less important. You find that you have something to look forward to. In time when everyone sees that you don't care and that you have a wonderful life that satisfies you outside of them they will start to wonder and try to find out what it is that has you so consumed. You see people like this think that the world revolves around them and when you become consumed with something that has nothing to do with them then they will want to know why because you will be rocking their existence, making them feel and seem less important. That is when you look them in the eye and say, "Did you actually think that I thought that you were my friend? You are no ones friends. I moved on, I suggest that you do the same." You are not a loser, you are a human being with feelings that are outside the understanding of narcicistic shallow people. Go and find people like yourself and have a wonderful life outside the games and egos that you have been surrounded with for too long. Let me know how things go and best of luck to you. :)
(Rating: 2) jerk. I'm not trying to hang out with "the coll kids" i have the "uncool" friends but they still hate me.. and no i don't and I'm just a sweet kid lost in the world and ur a loser that would never understand ebcuase ur just 1 of them that are doing this to me!