Our 21 year old daughter had to move back home, because her roomate moved out to go to college. Our daughter couldn't afford rent on her own, so she moved in with us. She got a job working as a cocktail waitress in a real dumpy bar, now she has started dating a "regular" from the bar, and he is a 23 year old drug(meth)dealer. I have pleaded with her not to go out with this loser, to no avail. Question: Should we throw her out and risk her moving in with the boyfriend or try to put up with it, in hopes that she will see the light and dump him. She says she really likes him. As far as I know, she is not using meth, but does smoke pot. I am really scared.
Well speaking out as a kid or "young adult" or whatever, I wouldn't throw her out. If my mom ever did that to me I would never talk to her again. My brother was dating some chick from hell and my mom told him that she wasn't aloud to come over anymore and it pissed him off and she moved in with her and my brother and my mom just barely talk anymore. It's your choice. I wouldn't though because you could loose everything you have with your daughter right now.
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Thanks for the advice
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