I love helping people out and I feel great giving advice to people out there I don't even know. It gives me great personal satisfaction knowing that the answers I give are pretty damn good. I have a cheery personality and I like art and music. I am not religious, but have a clear view of spirituality. I will never grow up completely, I clearly remember what it's like to be a teen, but now I have a much better perspective on how to get through it all because let me tell you, I have BEEN through it all. Glad to help any way I can...
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Location: New Hampshire
Occupation: homemaker:mommy
Age: 24
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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These are wonderful feelings to feel, and you are probably ready emotionally to take this on. But if things are going so well, things are going to get better. If you two love each other so much and are ready to take on life together then GO AHEAD...finish school, have fun with friends, enjoy your freedom AND THEN have a child together. A child is such a blessing to have, but are SO MUCH work and it would work best if you waited at least until you were 18. If you still feel this way at 18 when you're done school, then all systems go! But 15 IS a bit young you still have so much life to live. I would have hated this answere when I wanted a baby when I was a teenager. Now I am a 23 year old mom of a 10 mo. old baby, and well, sometimes I miss the freedom of being a teenager. Either way you're going to want something different. One day you will make a wonderful mother with that kind of love you hold in your heart, and believe me when I say it all happens so fast, please enjoy the moment you're living in for now. It is what I would tell myself if I could talk to that 15 year old girl from 1995/1996. Also, I don't know your life situation and your heart will tell you what's right, and things will happen as they are meant to be.
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Thanks! you really made me rethink about tha whole situation. :)
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