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so what do you do if whenever you get in fights with your mom your step dad gets involved too adn every time he gets involved i tell him hes not my dad so stop talking to me and hten he says yeah im glad im not bc if i was your dad id beat your damn ass ... idk what to do or to say to him and its really pissing me off! please help! (link)
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give the guy a break! her may not be your dad but he is the one who has put up with you since you were six he is the guy who has probably paid half towards those clothes your wearing or your christmas/birthday presents. he probably want to argue with you either, your not even his kid, but he has helped bring you up, he deserves some respect...this will get easier as you get older believe me.. i live with my step dad and we used to fight like cat and dog but as you grow up your like "holy cow he must really love my mum to put up with the all that shit" but this must be harsh on your mom too she wont want you two to hate each other, what do you want her to do break up with him and be unhappy just to make your life easier. try havin a word with him but be civil dont let it turn into another argument at the end of the day he is the one who has been the "dad" figure you should be thanking him cus he doesnt have to spend anything on you he chooses to. hope this helps :)
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Um, actually you're wrong. You may not have a step parent, but my dad pays child support and my mom has a much higher paying job then him. He doesn't even buy me Christmas presents. Think before you speak.
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