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Family--
4 brothers ( matias, jesse, bradon and benett ), 2 sisters ( -twin- Victoria aKa Tori, Jordyn ). Mom ( Beth ), Mom's boyfriend ( Benny ), Dad ( Michael ), Dad's fionce ( -the wicked witch from the west- Cammie ), oh yeah and then there's me, Alexis Pearl Simpson. Yah, I know I have 6 siblings, BIG family, but matias and jesse are from my mom's first marriage so they are my half siblings (my mom got divorced twice).
Life--
My dad is a big producer so the past few years I have just been moving like crazy. I have lived in New York, Texas, (Beverly Hills) California, (Los Angeles) California, Santa Fe and now (Beverly Hills) California again. My parents just got divorced, so this will hopefully and probably be my house for a long while. A lot of bad things happened in my life, but I got through it. That's why I like to give advice and why I think so many of my peers listen to my advice and come to me when the have problems. Well... hope I can help you out!! xoxo... Alexis
Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 16
Member Since: October 11, 2004
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Well this is a record 2 problems from me in one night...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. I'm 16, he's 18. We are having sex. Mom knows, but hates the fact and thinks he wouldn't stay with me if I told him I didn't want to have sex anymore, and I'm DYING to prove her wrong.
But the thing is, I don't really want to stop the sex because quite honestly, I like it. lol. Obviously he does, too, but I know he'd stay with me even if I did say I wanted to stop. Our relationship is based on pure love, not lust. (not to mention the fact that we're engaged. Mom doesn't know that, though. She won't know for about 3 or 4 years.) Mom doesn't believe he'd stay with me. I'm dying to prove her wrong, but that involves sacrifice on my part.
If I actually wanted to test him, I'd have to lie to him, and I don't want to lie to him...
What should I do? Should I test him and prove mom wrong, or just leave it alone? (link)
I think you should tell him the situation and if it truly is love he'll understand. Good luck! xoxo


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