Member Since: September 18, 2004
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Last Update: October 20, 2004
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I put this in Friendships because I didn't nkow where else to put this. Well, I'm a new student this year and I've made a few friends. Everyone's really nice to me and so far there hasn't been one person who dislikes me, but this one guy in my 3rd Hour class. He's part of the "popular crowd" but he just really gets on my nerves. If I just turn around to glance at something, he goes "TURN AROUND, I DONT WANT TO LOOK AT YOU!" Today, he was walking in front of my desk and he said something mean (I forgot what it was) and so naturally, I hit his arm playfully and he walked away. When he put his books on his table he walked over to me and said, "Don't touch me because you're really ugly." That one hit me really hard. I never really thought anything about my looks or stuff like that but now since I'm new to the school and he said that I'm starting to feel self conscious. The other day a girl pointed me out and said, "Isn't she so pretty?" but when he makes fun of me(which happens probably everday) I get hurt and pushed down for a while. I'm sorta friends with some of his friends but I'm not really that good enough friends to tell them to talk to him for me, especially since he's dating one of them! I'm sick of him always hurting me and always trying to push him down. I've tried telling him to stop but obviously he won't quit. I don't know what to do... (link)
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He either really likes you and can't figure a NICE you to treat you, or, he is just a big bully. You should just ignore him if he's going to be like that, and if he talks to you and says, "turn around" or whatever tell him you have a right to look that way. And if he says anything back, just ignore him. Because, if he knows it's not bugging you and you are not getting annoyed by it, he'll stop. You DON'T want to give the satisfaction of him bugging you. So, try what I tell you, ignore him.
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