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Hey Y'all! I'm Jessica. I'm 16 and a Junior in high school. I found this site and thought that since I usually give pretty good advice, I figured I'd try to help other people. I hope I can help y'all.

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Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....



Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?

PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother.

I'm sixteen and my guy's almost nineteen. We were both virgins until about five or six months ago. We realized that we really love each other and want to spend forever together. I didn't get emotional the first time, but I have after that. I don't know why, but I think that I was just overcome with emotion. You are a girl, after all, and all girls are known to be emotional at times. Don't freak out, it's normal.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks for the advice.. so you know, what you and your boyfriend did was illegal on his part. He's a legal adult and he could be arrested for it. Just make sure no one finds out.
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