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Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day

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okay, me and my ex bf went out for a year and were TOTALLY inlove with eachother we even talked about marrying eachother..we broke up about a year ago over a big fight..It was becuase he was trying to get with this other girl at like the last few days of our relationship, and then when he would try and apalogize just to become friends again, he would go off and talk so much crap about me..he did me wrong and hurt me so bad..its been a WHOLE YEAR and im still not over his ass..plzzz dont tell me, girl its been a year get over him, because TRUST ME thats whut ive been trying to do :[...im a really good looking girl, smart, ambitious, respectful..and with him, yeah hes really good looking, funny, etc, but he didnt even graduate from highschool, he smokes/drinks all the time, gets in fights, back stabs ppl, etc, but like NO1 sees that in him because he is SOO funny and makes every1 laugh,etc so they dont see the bad qualities in him..he gets alota girlz, etc..i dunno i just cannot stop thinking about him and its been so friggin long, like 4 hours cant go by in my day that I dont think about him..He changed my life so damn much, for the better and for the worst...i wonder if he ever thinks of me, i mean i was his first gf, his first love, his highschool sweetheart, etc...im still only a junior, and still have 2 years left of highschool...im just really down...plz help me if you can..
thanks so much

hey there hun....well the truth is all you can do is give it time and yeah uve had a lot of time to try to get over him but i guess u really cared for him....you try to fixate on something else i guess instead of guys doing something you like...you said your ambicious do something you werent able to do with him...start focusing on the bad of waht he did to you and you find out that overtime yyou will feel your self liking him less and less.....

JesusFreak

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot, it really helped me
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