hey everyone... Im just a girl that loves to give advice...and hopefully im good at it...dont get mad at what i say tho because all I do is tell the truth on how i feel
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Hey everyone, Siren here...I'm lost on this. Here's my shpiel:
This girl has been my best friend for around 13 years. Last year, I got a boyfriend and she got really clingy; called me every day wanting to hang out. It drove me nuts, but I think she stopped calling once she realized I wouldn't abandon her.
That was the start. Now, I never wanna hang with her anymore...Being around her bothers me, and I can't figure out why.
She sits with me and my choir friends at lunch, but she doesn't speak to them, only me, and when she does, it's off topic. She'll interrupt a convo I'm having with another friend to talk to me about something else and it's...grr. I feel like I wanna talk to her sometimes, but I almost don't want her to sit with us...
I know sometimes friendships die, but I really don't want to lose her, and I hate feeling like I don't wanna be around her. I used to tell her EVERYTHING, all my secrets...she used to know the most about me of any of my friends, but I stopped telling her because she doesn't seem to...care?
It might be that I grew up a lot, and she hasn't quite, but I'm not sure that's the only thing that's screwing up our friendship. I'm sixteen and a girl, she's seventeen, if that makes any sort of a difference.
What should I do about this? I asked my dad (he's a psychiatrist) and he didn't know what to do; neither did my mom...so I turn to y'all. (link)
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well i had the same problem with my friend except i hadnt known her nearly as long as you have known your friend...but i had to cut my friendship i ended it because it wasnt healthy for me she stressed me otu soooo much and it just was not a good relationship...she cared only about herself and not me...but now i have a really close best friend that i never had a chance to hang out with cuz i was with my other friend...so i think you should just tell her that you cant be friends with her anymore...and you have otehr friends that you can hang out with so it wont be bad for you and hopefully it will reduce some of the stress or pain your having
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