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Last Update: January 4, 2005
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i know i dont have a anger issue but sometimes i come off as being mean and i get irritated mostly with my best friend..today this happened and i guess i got too excited and must have been talking loudly but not yelling and then she didnt walk home with me instead she walked in front of me. i dont know what to do but we constantly get mad at each other. we have been friends for such a long time that i feel like i talk to her like shes a family member but she doesnt always get how im saying stuff. please help what can i do to be more calm with her?? (link)
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Sometimes people can come off as mean because they are jealous of the other. I'm not saying that you're all that jealous of her, but maybe in your subconscious mind, you are. It's either that, or you guys are spending too much time with eachother.
As for now, I think you should call her up and apologize to her. Explain to her how to you feel, and tell her that you're sorry. Obviously, you don't want to hurt her. If she is a good friend, she should understand this and forgive you.
As for the future, just think of what you say before you say it. Think of how you're coming off to people. If you really want to change like you said, then you will in time.
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thanks so much for the advice i know she will forgive me i needed that solution and will try my best to do that without leaving my friend out...good advice! i love how your straight forward
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