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Q: ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no?
A: You need to be open and frank with her. Explain things in a calm way, along with your feelings and why you're cutting yourself. If you don't freak out, it'll make it easier for her.
The next step for you guys would be to talk to a psychologist or guidance counselor. Cutting yourself is a serious issue and there should be no reason you need to. A psychologist or doctor can prescribe a regimen or treatment for you to help you feel better, sometimes with medication.
