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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her? (link)
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just tell her, u have a long day tomorrow, and that u have to go get some sleep and u dont wanna let her go but u have to and tell her that u really do care about her adn ur not tryin to offend her by getting off the phone, and tell her u will talk to her about this tomorrow or another day and try to make it earlier.. or if she wants u to call her tell her u bout to leave and ull call her when u get in. maybe she will understand, or at least i hope so.
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Thank you for your thoughts. It's just a difficult topic to reassure her on (that I do care, I just can't talk really late) because she has been let down by friends in the past and I don't want to do that to her.
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