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im 18 and my sister is 24. me and my sister dont get along much. once in awhile, were fine, but other than that, shes always screaming at me. a lot of my friends dont like her, nor does my guy. as the years gone by, ive learned to adapt to the way she treats me, but lately, it has gotten too out of hand and it makes me cry a lot. i told her plenty of times before that she hurts my feelings and shed apologize, but the next day, she still treats me like shit. i know that sisters are supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, but its more like i have her back and she just brings me down, because basically, she does. she makes my parents go against me, which causes me more pain. what should i do? ive tried talking to her numerous times, but that doesnt ever seem to work? help.. because its literally killing me inside.. (link)
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I'm in a situation much like yours, and I have been my whole life. I always looked up to both of my sisters, and thought THE WORLD of them. I did everything for them to accept me, and sometimes they did, sometimes they didn't (I'm the youngest by the way) It took me SOO long, but I finally realized that I was never the screwed up kid, because that's what I thought. I thought I don't fit into my family, so I must be the failure, but really....
My sisters are two VERY selfconsumed people...perhaps it's the same way for you!? It seems like you do a lot for her but she's not willing to return the favor, and that isn't right. I learned to be like them (but only to them) when it comes to my sisters, I will do certain things for them, but I always sit and think would they EVERR do this for me!? and if they wouldn't I don't do it for them, I don't do it to be mean, but sometimes you can't just be the 'nice guy' if ya know what I'm saying. Also, take into consideration your sister's life...maybe something is bothering her, and just the same way you need to vent about your sister, she needs to vent about something as well, maybe you could ask her if something is bothering her when she yells at you rather then getting into an argument. Well, I dono that I helped, but it's the best I got and I hope I did some good! =)
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