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ok. my friend (ill call her sarah)likes this guy. ill call him sam. and i like him too. another friend (ill call her betty) likes sam. and sam only like betty. which sucks for sarah. i really like him. but i wont hold it against anyone if they go out with him. sarah says that she'll be really mad if i go out with him (he almost asked me out once...). and i dont wanna hurt her feelings but im really confused. if i went out with him, id feel really selfish....i just dont know what to do. oh yea by the way, he just asked me out and i said that id think about it. im female and im 17. this is really long im sorry.
lol its ok that its long! well if sarah is a really good friend then she shouldn't care if you go out with him, but eh..i guess she really likes him so the situation changes a lil. but maybe you should just sit down and talk with her and say if i go out with him i don't want to lose you as a friend, and if she really doesn't want u 2, then don't...its hard but you've gotta stay true to your friends. or if you realize that you would rather lose sarah as a friend and go out with sam, then do that, its really whatever you think is right...remember, those who mind won't matter and those who matter won't mind. hope that helps..x0
(Rating: 5) sorry but another advice needing question. i sat down and told her about sam asking me out (did i tell you that she didnt know?) and she got really mad and walked away. i told her the next day that i hadnt said anything yet and she slapped me saying that i should never have said yes and i just said that i didnt say anything! just yesterday she realized what id been telling her for the last 4 days and apologized. then she told me that if i ever went out with him, she would kill me. i asked her if she would do the same for me like he ask her out what she would say. she said that she would say yes. i REALLy like sam but i wouldnt hold back a friend...i dont know what to do...