tbdrays17's advice column

okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!!

13-year-old going out with a 20-year-old... hmm...i wonder if thats true love. probably not. i dont know what this guy is trying to accomplish by going out with an eighth-grader but it cant be good. if her new friends are really her friends, they should tell her that going out with a twenty-year-old isnt cool. it seems like you have your head on straight more than they do. even if she thinks youre jealous, gets offended, and is even annoyed of you, don't stop telling her that shes doing the wrong thing. one person can make a difference, and trust me, she'll thank you in the long run. good luck

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(Rating: 5) thanks that made me realize wut im telling her isn't useless...:)

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