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Hey all! My name's Holly and I'm 16. I'm a sophomore at Cherokee Trail HS in Colorado, and I live with my mom, her fiance, my two younger brothers, and a younger sister. I'm the product of a rape and two divorces, and I've been through a lot of family issues. I'm not a virgin, but I've only had sex with one person my entire life. I've decided to become abstinent again; I'm not having sex again until I'm sure that it's right for me. I'm bisexual. I've dealt with a lot of loss in my life. I'm not the best Christian, but I do believe that there is a God -- or some sort of higher power -- out there. I'm bipolar and suffer depression. I don't usually go with labels, but if you had to label me it'd be some sort of mix between emo, goth, and punk. But I do listen to a lot of "prep" music, and tend to hang out with all different types of people. Anything else you wanna know, just ask. I'm open to all sorts of questions!

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E-mail: silent_x_cry@yahoo.com
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Location: Colorado
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Age: 16
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Last Update: September 28, 2004
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i'm going into highschool as a freshman and for a couple of years now i haven't been doing that good in school. i used to be an honor student and then i got hit with depression really bad and my grades fell to C's D's and F's and i always had A's and B's. I've been struggling since last year to get my grades up because i want so badly to become a doctor and i can't get my grades up. my delema is that if i keep struggling i want to hire a tutor for myself. normally i don't care what people think about me but i'm not sure what people would say if they found out that i had a tutor. i don't want to feel stupid. what should i do to make myself feel better about this?

First of all, it's great that you're stepping up and trying to make this year better than others. I definitely think that if you're trying to improve your grades, you need a tutor. Who cares what other people think? You're going to get even smarter than you already are (and you're pretty smart for thinking of a tutor), and you'll get better grades. Better grades means a higher confidence level. It all mixes together. Good luck, and have a great year!

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much for your advice!


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