A friend of many and in search of more. Always willing to lend a listening ear and advice. A christian and a leader. A lover to all my friends and family. I also love skiing and hanging out with people that mean a lot to me
E-mail: kewlmandew@hotmail.com
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Location: lancaster, PA
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Age: 17
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Member Since: August 22, 2004
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BlueEyedBlondie725
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Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!) (link)
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well you don't have to listen to this but i am 17 and i know what its like to be in love like that and well one night i aalmost made the mistake of giving my virginity away to someone i thought i loved and still do but it never really worked out between us because you can't always control what happens so now me and this girl are just friends. but best friends and i still love her but i had the chance because i think it is better if you save yourself for the one that is going to marry you because then you know its true love and you know that he won't be using you and it also depends how old you are. you may really love this boy ,but it just may not be right you can only lose your virinity once and once you lose it and if you and this boy never talk again it won't be as special with you husband. your brother isn't totally right you won't be a whore if you do it. and if you do decide to do it make sure that you take all the right moves to stay safe from pregnancy and diseases and if you want to talk more then just write in my column
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