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Last Update: August 21, 2004
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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it. (link)
Dear Really,
I noe this is hard for u to go thru. Maybe she should press charges on the guy who did that to her. Think some people may have been killed after a rape. BUT remember ur cousin lived strong through it. She may have a baby and if she doesnt want it there's a lot of mothere's who would want the baby. I hope i helped take care! Bye~

*Kristi*


Rating: 5
Thanks alot for your advice.We went to the cops on the guy who did it but it had been to late my cousin had kept this a secret from us for a while.Thanks so much for the advice.




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