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As part of my value system, I feel it is necessary for me to save my virginity for whomever might become my wife.
My foresight has not predicted I would be in my early thirties and still not in the position whereby I would be in a deep relationship.
Being without this in my life has detimentally affected my emotional health.
How can I find the best way to cope?
I know I'm young being 15 and all but I would like to give my insight. I think it's really great that you're saving yourself for marriage. You have your morals. I just wanted to let you know that it's great, other people have already given you advice. At least you know that when you do find someone, they won't be expecting you to use them or anything of that sort and I wish us kids had that type of security now-a-days. I'm sure you'll find the one, because I believe that there is a reason for everything and who knows, the next woman you see could be the love of your life. Just hang in there, you know? You are a good person for having this "value system" and I'm sure that everything will work out. Do you go out? Do you try to meet new people? Well if you don't, then you should. You're never going to find anyone if you don't get out there and meet people.
Lots of Love*
Becca
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Hi Becca!
I do go out quite a bit - mostly to coffee shops. I just haven't found "her" yet. I don't like being called picky, but its better that being called slut(as some guys are labeled nowadays).
I'm not Christian, but I think my values are spiritual. Sorta like the buddhist "eightfold path" with Right Action, Right Thought, etc..
I believe I'll be alright.
Thanks for the cool words.
Bye friend!
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