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I'm 22 and though I'm still young, I'm very mature for my age. I feel that I've been through almost every friend/love/school drama situation possible. I love to give advice to all people and look forward to helping you! *Melissa*

My quote of the week: "We cannot change our past...We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude...

I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it!"

advice

ok well I have been having problems at school and with friends. Well a couple of weeks ago a girl said she was gonna kick my ass and what not because ppl were telling her that i had been talkin bout her and i hadnt. Well we got everything straight and we became friends and i went out with her one weekend. Now she said that she was gonna kick my ass cause ppl have been telling her that i said i didnt really like her and the only reason i went with her was because I was scared of her and that i needed a ride and that is not true at all. I have never talked bad about her or anything. What should i do.

Ok. If she was going to beat you up, she would have done it already. AND...if she had even thought about it before she wouldn't have became your friend and went out with you one weekend. Honestly, I'd step to her just to see if she did anything. Not on purpose but if she says I'm gonna kick your ass be like ok lets go. Most likely she wont touch you. I went through stuff like this in HS, she is just someone who thinks that shes sooo cool what she needs is a reality check. Go to her, ask who told her these things, if she gives it up, confront them and try to fix things. Is it realy worth it for you to be friends with this girl? I wouldnt want a friend like this. Youre in HS...trust me from personal experience your gonna make A LOT more friends throughout the years. Things will be fine. Just take my advice.

P.S. Dont let her know that youre scared she'll beat you up. Thats why she does it.

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(Rating: 5) thanks but im not scared. I was just seein what u ppl would say!!
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