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im 14 and a female.. i kind of have a fear of commitment.. i always have, like my longest relationship has been a couple months.. i mean anytime i get a great bf or something and im happy, i get some excuse to dump him.. usually its a good excuse like i wont be able to see him much in the summer or i wanna be single to hook up with other people.. its weird though cuz its mostly like an on and off thing like sometimes ill just wanna be single and other times i get sooo lonely.. right now im lonely and i like these boys and everything but im not sure if anythings gonna happen with either of them.. im not even sure which one i wanna be with... but besides the point, i need advice basically on how not 2 be afraid of commitment cuz ive tried not to be b4 and the same thing keeps happening..
well i dont there this is a certian way not to be afraid of commitment..its just u eithr r or not..but like take a chance..i know you get bored and you make exuses my best friend is just like that..she acts like shes never happy but ends up regretting it..and thats what i think your going to end up doing..just try really hard to stay with one boy and maybee at some point you will overcome your fear . . . KaT *
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thanks 4 the help kat! im actually about to maybe go out with this boy roger so im going to try and stick it out.. if i need help ill holler at ya.. lol
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