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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

Don't just abandon your beliefs because you're afraid you won't be able to find someone that's a virgin too. There ARE guys out there that are virgins, it's just not so widely talked about. And there are also guys that have had sex before, but care about your beliefs and what you want to do, and won't make a big deal out of it. Stick to your morals, no matter what.

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