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Hey Guys! My name is Megan and I have brownish/redish/blondish hair. Whatever you call it. I found this site through one of my friends and it was heaven for me. I love giving people advice and I honestly do it every day. I honestly have been through a lot in my life. I would rather not post it up here but if it means relating to someone I will most certianly tell you. I'm a sporty type person. I played soccer for 7 years, and I play volleyball. No teams though. I workout at the gym and I run as often as I can. For those who are wondering, yes I'm a Christian. I believe in God deeply and he will come up in probably most of my answers. So if you need help with spirtual healing to I'm all ears.
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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Well first of all let me say you got a good guy, don't let him slip away. This topic might come up sometime soon or sometime far you aren't ever really positive. If it is bothering you, you bring it up. The more worried you are that he is going to "crack" the worse it is going to make everything. It sounds like you have yourself a special one. If he has waited for 2 years, he shouldn't have a problem with any more if he respects you. Bring it up so that it isn't brought up in an uncomfertable situation. I don't think you should have sex with him because you think he wants it now. WHAT GUY DOESN'T? If he is truly respectful of your feelings he will have no problems waiting until you are ready. Good Luck and God Bless!
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Megan-
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