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Q: i love my mom honestly i do, but she doesnt trust me....with anything!! not with my computer, phone or even with just my friends!! (especially the guy ones). how can i get her to just trust me?
I so know what you mean.My mom gives me the line "I trust you I just dont trust other people"!So what you have to do Is show her that you can be trusted and can take/handle responsibility.To do this first off Suck up as much as possible!I mean it if she asks you to do something do it right away no argument(parents hate arguments).This might take 3 days to a week for her to see that you are minding and LISTINING!Second,Make a proposal.Say you want to go to a partty at a friends house but your mom doesnt want you to.Tell her that you will call her at a certain time and check in,tell her that if she lets you go then you will do something for her,things of this sort.And the more that she lets you do and you follow through on your promises I bet ya she will notice and you will have to make less and less promises till she knows she can trust you!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

thanx. you gave an honest oopinion and it really helps. you rock! love ya!

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My name is Morgan,im 16,I love to shop and do girly stuff but I am a tomboy when it comes right down to it!I love to camp,surf,I play drums.I like to read alot and listin to music(My chemical Romance,Sondre Lerche,The 88,Dresden Dolls,Fear of Falling Stars,Gosling,Phantom Planet,Rooney,36Crazyfists,INCUBUS,Dashboard,Scotty Ryan,*im an emo child).
Most of all I love hangin with my homies Dane,Katy,Mitch,Vernon,Todd,Dan'l,Kayla,Jamie,Summer,Mark,Kyle,And J.J!

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