my names Keri
E-mail: cherrykeri345
Gender: Female
Location: usa
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: blissful939
Member Since: July 14, 2004
Answers: 35
Last Update: August 30, 2004
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letty_lOu
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ok. Me and my ex were back to dating, trying to see if we would get together again. We have been on and off for 7 months but a few days ago have officially ended things. I guess love is not enough to make it work but I'm ready to move on, don't get me wrong I LOVE HIM but i NEED to move on. ok. now here's my dilema:
In order for me to move on I need to forget him EVERYTHING(because i can live off the memories) but I don't really want to forget the past because what we had was beautiful. Can I remember what we had (as just that) and still really move on?
PS: the thing is we do have feelings for each other, we care about each other but as bf and gf we don't work. we can't be friends so pretty much i don't want to forget him because our memories is the only thing we have left. we love each other so its too painful to be friends. advice. (link)
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why dont you write in a journal ALL the memories you had together. then put the journal away in a place you rarely go. (like the top of a closet or under a bed) and then if your missing him REALLY badly one day go look at it (limit how often you look at it tho SELF CONTROL GIRL) and then just focus on your friends or your school work or a sport. just have a blast and have fun. you'll be fine
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I just wanted to thank you 4 ur advice and add that i DO have a journal and thats what i´m going to try.
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