Member Since: August 1, 2004
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idk what to do, today i was riding around my town on my bike to see if any of my friends wanted to hangout, and i met up with my friend lets call him tony. So we started to hangout and wen i went to go give him a hug he grabbed my booty. and i figured he was kidding around. Cuz we're madd tight so we started hangin out kidding around like making jokes and crapp like freinds doo, but then we started sitting down next to each otha and stuff and he started puting his hands all ova me, i told him like to stop where it came up to the limit like if he were tryin to go near my chest or between my legs. but although i stopped him from goen there he still patted my tush like it was a dog or cat or sumthin like that, i didnt mind itkind of was nice. Then he would start massaging my thighs making all these funny yet sweet comments. But then tony startted getten nasty askin weird questions like if i would ever give him a hand, jo*b, or blow. and i was like uhhhhhh idk. cuz i really didnt, then he started asking me if he would french me, i kinda wanted to but then i didnt. i really dunno what to do. im kind of a afraid to kiss him cuz i kinda dunno how. if someone could explain or help me with wut should i do IT WOULD BE GREAT. o yah and once after he kinda slid his hand against my chedt i got up and said i hadd to go.
thanxx
confused girl (link)
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Confused girl:
In my humble opinion "Tony" sounds like a moronic, immature creep who cant even fathom the concepts of respect or decency. Lets say you were less of a strong, assertive female, and you were too scared to even push him away or say no -how far could that have gone?
It's obvious where he wanted to take it, and if he truely cared for you as a friend or more he wouldn't have even tried the on-demand booty call style manuever- one that made you feel uncomforatable and confused. A real romantic encounter should make you feel happy, and he will want to know whats OK before getting all up on you. You did say you're friends, and its possible he's gotten the impression that you like him, although his crude approach still makes me think "pervert" either way. My advice would be to either 1)Talk to him, ask simply why he did that, and tell him how it made you feel. Search his attitudes and answers for clues as to weather or not he really cares or if he's just a jerk you should stay away from. Be cautious of smooth-talkin! 2)Trust your intuition - what made you get up and leave in the first place! If any guy tried to get with me like that I'd tell him off and walk away - You usually know you can trust someone when they make you feel completely comforatable.
LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF and more often than not people will love and respect you...
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Rating: 5
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tahnx so much i think i will do that
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