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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..

Thats the hardest part of a relationship, if yall date for quite some time, they expect to get some "stuff" in return. Dont force yourself to be ready and to grow up by tomorrow, nothing is worse than a boyfriend who pressures you or makes you feel quilty for not doing it. Honestly, you are very young. I didnt even kiss yet then, but the generations are growing up so quickly :-/

Anyways, please dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do. Stand your ground, be proud of yourself when you dont do it, and let him no straight up you arent going to give him a hand job or anything else. Be strong and confident!! Good luck sweetheart!! Tell me how it goes!


LoVe,
HeAtHeR!!

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(Rating: 5) :) thanks..i told him i wasnt ready and he respected that and he told me he would wait until i am ready
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