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You seem like a smart guy, so I'll ask you my question. I'd like to weed out stupid people and their stupid person answers. So here goes. I'm entirely in love with this guy, who is amazing. Each and every single time I speak to him, everything is better and everything is amazing. Seems great right? Maybe not. I have startted to get it into my head that maybe its never going to work and that maybe me and him won't ever work. Or that maybe me thinking he cares about me, or him saying that he cares about me is all a lie. That seems to happen to me a lot. Everytime I'm happy, I seem to sike myself out of it because I believe that either its going to suddenly fall apart or go away OR that I've imagined it all. Is there ever going to be a way for me just accept that the guy loves me or that I love him and move on with life, or am I doomed to destroy every other relationship with a human being because I freak myself out each and every time? I'm afraid of losing something amazing and at the same time, I'm afraid of wrecking it myself. Any suggestions? I don't want to lose this guy or wreck my chance with him, because I really care a lot about him, every single aspect of him.

I can assure you, that this guy is genuinley in love with you. And for you to be feeling all of these feelings is completely normal, as the mind always tries to find something wrong with every situation. And if this guy is genuinley in love with you (Which he is), there is NOTHING that will stop the two of you from being together. If this guy really loves you, he will travel across the world a million times for you. Love is just like that, weird sometimes.
Hope I helped.

Trey Parker

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