Hi my names is Samantha and i am here to do what i do best-Give advice. Ive done alot in my short lifetime so far and i hope that the mistakes i made or even the good things that ive done could make an impact on some peoples decisions. When I was 13 I was deeply in love with a 16 year old and went out with him for 2 years-through that relationship i found out what love wasnt and it was not him .After he dumped me I went to an all time low and i attempted suicide-I failed and im here now and i am happier then i ever have been..And through my 10 day visit to the hospital, I have realized what my life is about, and what I would like to accomplish in my short lifetime.Hopefully you will trust in me to give u the most honest and trustworthy advice that I can give and at the same time have a friend that you can come to when you just need someone to talk to, I am always here, and am eager to help. So why dont You Holla at me and I will do what I can to help.
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there's a guy... we'll call him bill. :D he's 16, and i'm 14. he is the lead singer of my brother's band... he and i have had an INCREDIBLE friendship. we click REALLY well, and i care about him so much. i would do ANYTHING for this guy... and, i see myself married to him and starting a family with him someday. we are both into the same things, we both are crazy, and we both relate to eachother really well. he means everything to me. (sorry, i think we've already accomplished that... lol) anyways, he thinks that 2 years is too big of a difference, he treats other girls the same way that he treats me, (like a princess), and i just wish that I would be the only one that matters to him. forever. If only the arms that he throws around me could be around me forever. i want to wake up beside him every morning for the rest of my life.
i have it bad. help! –jessi
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Hey Jessi I think i can help you in a way...I know what u mean about a guy not liking u b/c of the age difference..Well you are 14 years old and u are in love,majorly in love.but think of it this way if he isnt with you because of the age then does he love you?? b/c isnt love a mutual feeling between too people?if its only 1 person "loving" the other then the term is called infatuation. Sweety i would love to tell u u will be with this guy forever and ever but nobody knows-thats the whole deal with life ,and u are just starting out. there are going to be alot go guys and if this one is special to you then i would tell this guy"Bill" that u would appreciate it if he gave u a try.-talk with him and dont like say stuff to him like i wanna marry u and i wanna spend forever with you because he is 16 and that will scare him,-tell him that u think that u guys have alot in common and u like being with him and the way that he treats you and that u would like to be with him and see what he says if u are rational about the whole thing everything should work out-or maybe he's concerned with u being 14 and doesnt want to hurt you-or maybe he doesnt like you and just wanted an excuse(guys r jerks) but if he treats u right i would talk to him and see if your friendship could turn into a relationship..Also ask your brother how he feels about his sister goin out with his friend and singer of his band-cus if u 2 brake up it could mess up the thing with ur bro and "Bill." Hope I helped let me know and write back!!! *Sammi
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ooooh! thank you so much!!!
you helped out a ton!
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