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Woa, slow down Buckaroo. You're going a million miles an hour and I'm only going 50, haha.
Okay, we'll handle one issue at a time, seeing as though there are like, 3 in that tiny paragraph.
The telephone. It's not a big deal. Trust me, a lot of people are bad at talking on the phone. I, for one, am. I actually don't talk on the phone, I just sit there nodding my head until the person says bye, haha. Blame the system, man! The AIM system. People are getting so sucked into talking over the internet, they've totally forgotten about the phone or writing letters. But trust me, the phone is no problem. It's just like talking to her when she's standing right infront of you.
You're doing the exact same thing that can cause pimples and depression. Stress! You're stressing out about what's going to happen if you and this girl break up, when you haven't even asked her out yet! That can't be healthy. Live life one day at a time. If she says yes to your question, then you shouldn't really be thinking about what's possibly going to happen if things don't work out. Care about the time you spend with her. But if she says no, then don't stress over it (See? That word's bad!). Yes, you will be a little disappointed in her answer, but the joyous thing about the world is that there are SO many more people out there. So you take some time to mourne over her, then move on.
And the friendship problem. If she was ever a real friend to begin with, then she'll STILL be your friend, so don't worry about it.
You can't force feelings, sweetie. Trust me, I've tried so many times. I just hope it all works out for you.
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