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guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one.. (link)
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If you've only been going out 3 or 4 weeks, he may not be open enough to tell you certain things about his past. Everyone makes bad choices, and his parents are right to take away some of his rights. However, I don't think he's only dating you because he wants to get his parents to let him date again. Sometimes when a guy makes bad choices, he just feels more comfortable with a younger girl. And even if he isn't a virgin, it doesn't mean he's going to try anything with you. My advice would be to tell him straight out that you AREN'T interested in a sexual relationship with him...& if a lot of people have "heard stories" about him, it might not be a bad idea to listen to them & then ask him about it.
I hope I helped :)
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yeah good advice, i jus dont know if im ready 2 know the truth ya know? and i dont wanna listen 2 the stories then be like "well this is what i heard" ya know? id rather him jus come out n tell me, but i dunno how 2 bring it up?
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