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I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you.. (link)
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well first of all when guys abuse their girlfriends its not cool at all bc they could really hurt you. even if its not true u should find out the truth. i wouldnt ask your boyfriend bc of corse he would lie if he did and if he doesnt lie he could go crazy and hurt you. i would try to talk to some of his ex-girlfriends and find out the truth bc he need to get some help if he does and you need to be careful bc he could really hurt you i would learn how to protect youself and maybe only go places where there are other ppl around for a while until you know for sure he wouldnt hurt you.
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thanks for all ur advice it helped so much. iv talked to his ex-girlfriend. she told me that he ruined her life and did some nasty shit to her n that he is jus goin to ruin my life n wen he does all shes goin to tell me is that she told me so. she also told me that she was still in love wit him, so i was jus kinda like umm r u jus tellin me this bc u want me to break up wit him or r u tryin to help me out? well thanks again for takin the time to answer my question n give great advice!!
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