hey im kelly im from MA my fav things to do r write, act, playu the drums, run xc and track, read, other stuff too. uhh i like to just hang aroiund with friends go places the usual, anyway send me anything if anyone needs ne help or advice. ill try the best i can to give you that.
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Ok, so heres the deal. I've been bestfriends with this girl since I was 11 now Im 18. At the age of 15 we stopped talking for a year because we went to different highschools. Well now, I can't stand to be around her because she lies a lot. And it will be about stupid things or even serious things that you wouldnt lie to your bestfriend about. For instance being a virgin or not, how many people you have had sex with, how much you drank...etc. to the stupidest stuff like how much you spend on a car, how many hours you work, how much your getting paid, hitting an animal in the road n making a story up about it. I tried to confront her 3-4 times before but she gets mad and makes a big deal about it and claims she will never lie to me and stuff. Now that I've had a boyfriend for about 7 months shes thinking I dont hang out with her anymore because of him when its not that at all. Granted I do hang out with him everyday but we will go to parties, watch movies, stuff like that. With her we would sit around or go for a drive n she would usually end up dropping me off at 11 cuz she didnt feel good, was tired, and stupid things like that. My curfew is 1. Everythign she says now I doubt and I'm starting to believe shes a pathological liar. What should I do because everytime I try to talk to her she just turns it all around on me. And when I dont wanna do something like go away with her because Im not allowed or go to the club she tries to guilt trip me sayin that shes second best to my boyfriend and that I never wanna do anything. I've talked to my other friends and they all agree with em n say that they dont liek her but use her for a ride. My betsfriend doesnt know that. What should I dooooo? Hope thats not too complicated for you to follow i kinda rambled on. Thank youuu (link)
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i have a friend like that. i would sit down with them and explain to them that u like them for who they are and it doesnt matter how much they lie and everything. tell them exactly how u feel calmly and nicely, and that she can trust you. hopefully she will understand. she might just like the fact or lying or she feels better about herself when she does. this might be a habit that she has so bear with her and hopefully she can break it. good luck with this hope i helped
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Thank you for your help! I really appreciate it and how quick you were to answer! xoxo
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